You’ve done the interviews and chosen an in home Care Worker that seems right for your parent or spouse as they are ageing in place. Now it’s time for them to arrive for their first day on the job to provide in home care services.
It’s normal for everyone—you, your loved one and the in home Care Worker—to have butterflies and questions. To start everyone on the right foot, use advice from a professional Care Advisor from Home Care Assistance, Sarena Virani.
Virani suggests providing a clear picture for the person receiving in home care services. If your parent or spouse met the Care Worker during an interview, talk about what you liked. For people with memory issues, it’s helpful to have this conversation a few times. Bring the Care Worker alive as a person by describing their experience and personality they bring to their care for the elderly.
“Do as much as possible in the days or weeks before the in home Care Worker arrives. It’s so important to discuss the new Care Worker, in home care goals and expectations with your loved one as soon as possible. Share details like the Care Worker’s name, why they’re arriving and what they’ll be doing as part of their in home care services,” says Virani.
If the new in home Care Worker arrives alone on their first day, make them comfortable. Re-introduce the Care Worker to your family member – they should have met before this first day of aged care services.
If you hire an in home Care Worker through Home Care Assistance, the Care Worker will arrive with your dedicated and expert Client Care Manager. Virani says, “Having a Client Care Manager arrive for initial introductions to receiving home care services makes a big difference. You already have a relationship with the Client Care Manager. And, they are trained to make smooth introductions and review the in home care plan.”
This is your opportunity to add depth and nuance to your instructions. Your in home Care Worker will be paying close attention.
The customs of your home are different than mine. Don’t be shy about stating your preferences for how you would like the in home care for the elderly to occur for your loved one.
Does your mother respond best to using a linen napkin when eating? Should the dog never be let out of the house? Your parent may be averse to bathing in the morning but prefers the evening. You may want the in home Care Worker to not change the channel on the television while your mum naps or you may feel that’s completely acceptable.
“Different families have different preferences. These small behaviours make a difference for each family. Feedback about the home care services is very important. This is often a trial and error situation that needs more than one day or even week to find an equilibrium,” says Virani. “We find that it takes about four weeks for everyone to feel comfortable and get into the right rhythm/schedule, especially when in home care is new to the family.”
Virani suggests making a list of the top five behaviours you want the in home Care Worker to use in your home as they support your loved one ageing in place. These are not related to in home health care and the client’s daily care for the elderly needs, but rather habits and customs. For example, not changing the TV channel when dad is watching his shows, or taking their shoes off when they enter the home.
“The list will grow over the first few weeks. An experienced in home Care Worker will expect those changes. When you have a new person in your home, they can’t anticipate everything that is important to you.
“Provide feedback and say your home care assistance expectations out loud. Our goal is to ensure that both our clients and Care Workers are happy and safe – timely feedback allows us to reach that goal for each family.” says Virani.
The relationship between an older person ageing in place and an in home Care Worker is a special one. It is also complex and not without challenges. An environment of trust, interest, and stimulation will move the relationship forward in positive ways.
Before we talk about how to foster a positive relationship with the home care agency, it is important to talk about the special nature of the in home Care Worker client relationship. Closeness is important, but with these cautions in mind:
The level of bonding between someone ageing in place and the in home Care Worker depends on the person receiving the home care assistance. Virani reports that some clients resist any friendly relationship with a Care Worker. Other people crave a close personal relationship as part of their aged care services.
“In home Care Workers find common ground by talking about mutual interests. The Client Care Manager will identify common interests during the assessment stage and the interview. Mention your father’s love of basketball or fishing. This helps the in home Care Worker have topics to discuss with him throughout the day as they provide in home services,” Virani added.
Every Care Worker situation is different. The home care agency develops a care plan that will identify the tasks an in home Care Worker is to perform as part of their care for the elderly. A good home care agency should also focus on the personal nature of the relationship. A good relationship will ensure a long-lasting and productive experience. This doesn’t happen magically!
As a family member, tell the in home Care Worker about specific activities your loved one enjoys now or has done in the past prior to ageing in place. Here are some possible activities to encourage bonding and improve a family member’s quality of life.
Good, clear communication is at the heart of any good relationship. This is no different with a home care agency and in home Care Worker. The question is how, when, and with whom this occurs. As a family member of someone receiving care for the elderly, it is tempting to “manage” this situation. Here are some tips to help both in home Care Worker and client feel more comfortable with one another, which can increase the chances of bonding.
Any valued relationship takes effort. Help to facilitate communication and connection by following these tips. You and your family member ageing in place will be happier and healthier as a result.
Experienced in home Care Workers arrive prepared to perform everything written in the care plan.
The in home care manager will ask your preference – to start slow or dive in. There is no reason to limit or restrict home care services activity on your first day with the new Care Worker.
You may want your in home Care Worker to start with a task that is not intimate personal care. For instance, the Care Worker can help in the kitchen, prepare a meal, or do the laundry. This is less personal than helping a person get dressed. As the day progresses, the Care Worker will provide more direct home care services with their client ageing in place.
If your parent is accepting of care for the elderly, go ahead with your typical routine. Schedule medical appointments, haircuts or grocery shopping on the first day.
“It truly depends on the person receiving in home care assistance and their resistance to having a Care Worker,” says Virani.
Depending on the family’s preference, Care Workers may eat with the client to provide some company or eat on their own.
“In home Care Workers generally bring their own meals. Some families prefer to provide a meal for the in home Care Worker. Breaking bread together is a way to bond with the in home Care Worker but it is not a necessary part of in home care services,” says Virani.
Virani stresses the importance of providing feedback to in home Care Workers about a loved one’s first day. Families and people receiving in home care services should be vocal about what went right and what to change about the provided care for the elderly.
On the first day, provide your feedback to your home care agency’s care advisor. They can be a useful intermediary. They are very experienced at this type of communication,” says Virani.
“Too often a family might feel it’s impolite to talk about something they want changed. I understand. We’re not always accustomed to having people work in our home on such a personal level. Your in home Care Worker is a multifaceted, caring person. They want to provide the in home care assistance you want, in the way you want it. You are helping everyone by giving feedback.” says Virani.
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